So He Doesn’t Trust You
On a quick serious note, I’m walking in the MS Walk this April for my mother who’s been living with Multiple Sclerosis for the past 15 years. I know I’ve made mention of her trials and tribulations lately and I wanted to reach out to my e-family to donate to the cause. I know times [...]
Are You Ready for Love?
Miss Jenkins’ note: I originally posted this over on Loud Pen’s spot. And since I am in the midst of academic hell, I figured I’d share the goodness with you all. Enjoy and share your thoughts! When I first heard “Ready for Love” by India.Arie, I was 17, in college and experiencing what I thought [...]
Eff ‘Em Friday
Miss Jenkins Eff my bookbag. Why? Because it broke my sunglasses. People lose and break sunglass all the time, but not me. I had these shades for 2 summers, never had an issue. Until yesterday. I wore them, and then put them in the tiny zipper part that holds nothing else. When I was ready to [...]
Dry Nuts: A Chat About Involuntary Celibacy
Slim: Every now and then a man goes through a stretch in his life where his nuts are extremely dry. He gets no bunz or whoppington o’suckles. This stretch can be a few days, a few weeks, or a few months. The longer the period of bunlessness, the more the testosterone builds and he becomes [...]
Modern Day Matchmaker: Do You Believe in Soul Mates?
**The Modern Day Matchmaker Tour starts in D.C. on March 27th. Click here for details and to find out when he’s coming to a city near you!** Paul and the fellas are back at it for the final part of the series on things single men think and talk about. In this segment, they’re discussing [...]
Procrastination is like…
*Check out Slim Jackson tonight at 9pm EST on Blogtalk Radio discussing life as a Black Blogger. For more information on the show or to tune in, click here.** As per my usual weekly post creation process, I spent most of the day pondering what in God’s name I should write about today. The old [...]
Booze!
*Check out Slim Jackson tomorrow at 9pm EST on Blogtalk Radio discussing life as a Black Blogger. For more information on the show, click here.** On Sunday night I threw back a couple, OK several, shots, had a couple beers, walked home, woke up at 9am & then killed a couple interviews. Shout out to [...]
The Sexuality Continuum
All of the posts on this site that relate to relationships are written from the perspective of 4 heterosexual folks. This doesn’t mean that our experiences can’t be applied to same-sex relationships or that we seek to exclude people; it just means that the source our stories and opinions are male-female relationships. But as you [...]

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