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How You Want a 10 When You’re Looking Like a 3?

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on February 2, 2011 - 62 Comments
Random Commentary

**Come out to Turtle Bay NYC at the intersection of 52nd and 2nd tonight (2/3) for Happy Hours from 9-12. Say my name at the door and get half off on all drinks. There will be all sorts of foolery going on upstairs. If you show up after 12, I honestly may not remember you [...]

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Black Twitter: Is Ignorance Really Bliss?

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on January 20, 2011 - 32 Comments
Cultural Issues

I was on The Root the other day reading a piece titled “Black Twitter: Trending Topics Paint the Wrong Picture.” The article noted that Black folks make up about 25% of Twitter users. That number was higher than I expected, but explained a lot about what I see daily as I make my social media [...]

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Why Love Is Not a First Sight Thing

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on January 14, 2011 - 27 Comments
Relationships

Baby, I knew when I laid my eyes upon you that sunny summer day at the bus stop that you were the one. It was a feeling I never felt before. When our eyes met, I sensed a level of attraction and chemistry that left me not only feeling weak, but also as if time [...]

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Bible Verses: The Crutch of the Weak Argument

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on January 11, 2011 - 78 Comments
Random Commentary

A while ago I wrote a series on my adventures in faith. More specifically, I talked my adventures in finding a relationship with God. One of the points made in the 3rd part of the series was that one’s spirituality shouldn’t be influenced by the actions of others. I honestly feel the same as I [...]

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What Exactly Is Dating? Oh, It’s Ambiguous.

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on January 6, 2011 - 23 Comments
Relationships

“You can’t be in a relationship and still be dating,” one of my female friends shouted. “It can be used interchangeably,” I chimed in. “It depends on if it’s exclusive or not,” another friend yelled. I held my 4th glass of wine and listened. This conversation was a reminder of one I’d had previously. Listening [...]

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Forget Resolutions. Embrace Yourself.

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on January 5, 2011 - 24 Comments
Introspection & Mental

I was scanning through blogs last night and came across a post on Until I Get Married titled “Her Dream Man Is Standing Near Me, But I’m The One Talking.” The author, Jozen, wrote about a shy friend of his that he considers to be a great guy that often gets overlooked by women because [...]

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To Catch a Predator: Making Molesters Funny

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on December 22, 2010 - 27 Comments
Cultural Issues

Have you ever watched To Catch a Predator? If not, you’re missing out. For those unfamiliar with it, it’s a show where child molesters are lured from chat rooms to a house full of cameras and the witty genius known as Chris Hansen. Over the last few months, it’s become one of the most popular [...]

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5 Things That #DatingTaughtMe

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on December 16, 2010 - 80 Comments
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**Next Slim Jackson Ustream/live stream and chat is scheduled for 12/21 (Tuesday) at 9pm** The other night I was getting my dose of Twitternet and noticed that #collegetaughtme was the hot new trending topic. Everybody was following the hashtag with things they learned from college ranging from promissory notes to trains…and I don’t mean a [...]

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