Three Ways to Take It

Three Perspectives on Love, Life, and Culture

  • Home
  • Who Are We?
  • Contact Us
  • Awards
  • Archives
  • Follow Us!

    • Follow Slim on Twitter!
    • Follow Miss Jenkins on Twitter!
    • Follow Seattle on Twitter!
    • Add Slim on Facebook!
  • Visit Our Store!

    6559752-17050389
  • Writers’ Picks

    • The League of Unextraordinary Women
    • Change You Can Believe In: Yourself
    • Top 5 Reasons to Swallow
    • The Truth in Advertising
    • You Don't Want No Face?!
    • The Wingwoman
    • Things You Shouldn't Say to Black People
    • I Was the Other Woman
  • Blogroll

    • and1grad
    • Awesomely Luvvie
    • Black & Trapped in Toronto
    • BougieLand
    • Fly Black Chick
    • Noni Jones in Harlem
    • Prune Juice Media
    • Rahim
    • SH Collective
    • Shelia G.
    • Single Black Male
    • Single Sisters Speak Out
    • Step Your Fashion Game Up
    • Streetz
    • The Choklit Factory
    • The Fresh Xpress
    • The Luvologist
    • True2Life Music
    • undressingHER
    • Very Smart Brothas
  • Ad Goodness

  • Matchmaker Series

    • Things Men Look at First
    • Do You Shop or Do You Invest?
    • When to Invest in a Significant Other
    • Interview with Author of Bitch is the New Black
    • Stop Mean Muggin'

The Basics of Man

Posted by Seattle Washington on March 8, 2011 - 159 Comments
Advice

This is one of my favorite entries (giggidy), I hope it’s yours too. As Slim already said yesterday, we had a BBQ at our crib this past weekend. It was a great time had by all. And I actually had fun at my own joint. I threw back a few cups of Wray and Nephews, [...]

Peep this »

159 Comments

Don’t Stand In Your Own Way

Posted by Miss Jenkins on January 10, 2011 - 14 Comments
Advice

I received this email from a reader and thought it’d be a good one to share with you all. If you have questions, want to hear (read) my perspective on a situation, or have a topic you want to see addressed, you can drop me a line at sowhatiff.jenkins@gmail.com. Dear Ms. Jenkins, Something new may [...]

Peep this »

14 Comments

The Eff Buddy Zone

Posted by Seattle Washington on November 30, 2010 - 43 Comments
Advice

Somewhere between the “Friend Zone” and “Relationship Land” is a magical place full of wonder and enchantment. Everyone who’s passed through always had a carefree, glorious time. What’s this mysterious place you may ask? My friend, it’s called “The Eff Buddy Zone.” Similar to the “Friend Zone,” the “Eff Buddy Zone” is a region that’s [...]

Peep this »

43 Comments

The Joys of Home Ownership

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on October 14, 2010 - 24 Comments
Advice

Central to the “American Dream” is home ownership.  I joined the home ownership party sometime around the 3rd week of January 2008.  I was perfectly aware that moving into a house in the middle of January in the snow capitol of the world probably wasn’t the best idea, but I was all too excited to [...]

Peep this »

24 Comments

Oral Lovemaking For Dummies

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on September 22, 2010 - 19 Comments
Advice, Oldie But Goodie, Sex

Any sophisticated gentleman well versed in the art of the climax usually boasts a very strong face game.  They have to possess intangible skills that catapults them into the realm of making women believers and enthusiastic h*ad givers.  During the well publicized drought of good black men, having impeccable linguistic talents will make you more [...]

Peep this »

19 Comments

4 Reasons Not To Cheat On Your Wife

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on August 25, 2010 - 86 Comments
Advice

The divorce rate is at an all time high and alimony settlements are even higher.  Divorce hearings are starting to look more like NFL contract signings because these heffas are getting broke the f*ck off.  The list of celebrities that pay exorbitant amounts of alimony is almost identical to it’s who’s who list.  Today, Tiger [...]

Peep this »

86 Comments

Change You Can Believe In: Yourself

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on June 23, 2010 - 69 Comments
Advice

One of my friends has been sending out a lot of inspirational quotes and excerpts lately in an effort to increase our daily positivity and well…hustle. It’s such a simple thing, but in the grand scheme of life it has an impact on all of us. As most of you know, it’s easy to get [...]

Peep this »

69 Comments

The Ten Office Commandments (Redux)

Posted by Seattle Washington on June 8, 2010 - 25 Comments
Advice

Since Slim and I both have new jobs now, I thought it was appropriate to set the bar before things got out of hand. Enjoy! Slim and I were crossing the bleak desert, leading our people (what’s left of them anyway) to the promised land when we stumbled upon a burning printer.  After replacing the [...]

Peep this »

25 Comments

Next Page »

  • RSS & Twitter

  • Get Posts by Email

    Enter your Email


    Preview | Powered by FeedBlitz
  • Add to Google Reader or Homepage

  • We don't sell email addresses or engage in other shady acts. Privacy first.
  • Support the Squad

  • Ad Goodness

  • Recent Comments

    • 5 Lessons Learned From Dating on Trains
    • Daja on Things You Should Not Say to Black People
    • badwookie on Is This Broad Crazy??
    • Laura from AZ on Things You Should Not Say to Black People
    • Being the Heartbreaker « Rewriting Herstory on Being the Heartbreaker
  • Get Caught Up!

    • 3 Ways Update: Slim Starts New Personal Blog!
    • My New Site
    • Eff Em Friday
    • Operation Don’t B*tch Up: My Last Post on 3 Ways
    • A Toast For the A$$h*les
    • No Questions Asked
    • Bittersweet
  • Ask Slim Anythang

  • Ask Miss Jenkins

  • Most Visited Posts

    • The Top 5 Reasons Why You Need to Swallow
    • Things You Should Not Say to Black People
    • 8 Ways to Make a Guy Not Want to Sleep with You
    • Disobey Your Thirst
    • Quick to Pass Judgment
    • The Pussification of America
    • HBCU vs. PWI
    • The League of Unextraordinary Women
  • Archive Jawn

  • Categories

    • Advice
    • Annoucements
    • Collabo Posts
    • Cultural Issues
    • Current Events
    • Drama
    • Eff Em Fridays
    • Guest Posts
    • Introspection & Mental
    • Life
    • Music
    • Oldie But Goodie
    • Physical Health
    • Politics
    • Promotion
    • Pure Comedy
    • Race
    • Random Commentary
    • Relationships
    • Sex
    • Special Feature
    • Uncategorized

Recent Posts

  • 3 Ways Update: Slim Starts New Personal Blog!
  • My New Site
  • Eff Em Friday
  • Operation Don’t B*tch Up: My Last Post on 3 Ways
  • A Toast For the A$$h*les

Recent Comments

  • 5 Lessons Learned From Dating on Trains
  • Daja on Things You Should Not Say to Black People
  • badwookie on Is This Broad Crazy??
  • Laura from AZ on Things You Should Not Say to Black People
  • Being the Heartbreaker « Rewriting Herstory on Being the Heartbreaker

Admin Login

Powered by frugal


Copyright © 2012 Three Ways to Take It