The Basics of Man
This is one of my favorite entries (giggidy), I hope it’s yours too. As Slim already said yesterday, we had a BBQ at our crib this past weekend. It was a great time had by all. And I actually had fun at my own joint. I threw back a few cups of Wray and Nephews, [...]
Don’t Stand In Your Own Way
I received this email from a reader and thought it’d be a good one to share with you all. If you have questions, want to hear (read) my perspective on a situation, or have a topic you want to see addressed, you can drop me a line at sowhatiff.jenkins@gmail.com. Dear Ms. Jenkins, Something new may [...]
The Eff Buddy Zone
Somewhere between the “Friend Zone” and “Relationship Land” is a magical place full of wonder and enchantment. Everyone who’s passed through always had a carefree, glorious time. What’s this mysterious place you may ask? My friend, it’s called “The Eff Buddy Zone.” Similar to the “Friend Zone,” the “Eff Buddy Zone” is a region that’s [...]
The Joys of Home Ownership
Central to the “American Dream” is home ownership. I joined the home ownership party sometime around the 3rd week of January 2008. I was perfectly aware that moving into a house in the middle of January in the snow capitol of the world probably wasn’t the best idea, but I was all too excited to [...]
Oral Lovemaking For Dummies
Any sophisticated gentleman well versed in the art of the climax usually boasts a very strong face game. They have to possess intangible skills that catapults them into the realm of making women believers and enthusiastic h*ad givers. During the well publicized drought of good black men, having impeccable linguistic talents will make you more [...]
4 Reasons Not To Cheat On Your Wife
The divorce rate is at an all time high and alimony settlements are even higher. Divorce hearings are starting to look more like NFL contract signings because these heffas are getting broke the f*ck off. The list of celebrities that pay exorbitant amounts of alimony is almost identical to it’s who’s who list. Today, Tiger [...]
Change You Can Believe In: Yourself
One of my friends has been sending out a lot of inspirational quotes and excerpts lately in an effort to increase our daily positivity and well…hustle. It’s such a simple thing, but in the grand scheme of life it has an impact on all of us. As most of you know, it’s easy to get [...]
The Ten Office Commandments (Redux)
Since Slim and I both have new jobs now, I thought it was appropriate to set the bar before things got out of hand. Enjoy! Slim and I were crossing the bleak desert, leading our people (what’s left of them anyway) to the promised land when we stumbled upon a burning printer. After replacing the [...]

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