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Black Women Stay Hating

Posted by Miss Jenkins on November 2, 2009 - 125 Comments
Drama

Last month, Slim touched on a topic that sorta struck a nerve with me: Black women hating on each other. It starts with the o_O (read: side-eye) you see your mother and grandmother use. When they aren’t looking, you try it too, at first with your siblings and cousins; then you try it at school. [...]

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She’s Your Boo, Not Mine

Posted by Miss Jenkins on March 2, 2009 - 80 Comments
Drama, Relationships, Sex

As a woman, I have always believed that it was right to respect the boundaries of another woman’s relationship. True, I may be single, and that man is damn fine, and has been giving me googly eyes for the past couple weeks, but I know he has a girlfriend. So what have I traditionally done?  [...]

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Rihanna Isn’t the Only One

Posted by Miss Jenkins on February 23, 2009 - 37 Comments
Drama, Life, Relationships

I hate celebrity gossip. It’s just annoying to me. Mostly because I could care less about what Angelina has named her new black baby, or what Beyonce wore to the Grammy’s. But when I heard about the “altercation” between Chris Brown and Rihanna, I took interest.  Unlike other celeb stuff that has a superficial tone [...]

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Double Feature: The NY Post, Police and Gun Shots.

Posted by Miss Jenkins on February 20, 2009 - 21 Comments
Drama, Politics, Race

**Admin note:  In light of recent events, we at Three Ways wanted to bring you twice the Friday fun.  Check out both posts.  Since you’re not really going to do much work today anyway.   Enjoy. I’m sure we have all see this cartoon and read various reactions.  If you haven’t seen it already, below is [...]

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The Not So Excellent Adventures of Seattle & Slim: Holiday Edition.

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on December 21, 2008 - 20 Comments
Drama, Life

SLIM: Last time we did one of these not so excellent adventures posts, we were recalling the nightmare that was the apartment hunt for two college educated 20 something Black guys in Boston. Twas an extremely unpleasant process, but we were happy to find a nice spot in an uppity neighborhood with a false sense [...]

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Hell Hath No Fury…

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on December 2, 2008 - 55 Comments
Drama, Life, Relationships

I was talking with one of my boys recently about his Baby Mama drama. I guess we’re on a roll this week with Double Standards. This one isn’t so much about sexy time as it is about the consequences of sexy time with the crazy and deranged who weren’t properly screened up front. It’s even [...]

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Please Leave Your Baggage At Home

Posted by Miss Jenkins on November 19, 2008 - 12 Comments
Advice, Drama, Relationships

Women are constantly accused of dragging around their faux Louis Vuitton luggage packed full of emotional issues from man to man and relationship to relationship.  I am guilty of said behavior.  Most women are, at some point or another.  The man on the receiving end (and probably the creator of issues for someone else) complain [...]

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The Movie of My Life

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on November 11, 2008 - 11 Comments
Drama, Life, Random Commentary

When I left my office for the day one day last week, Mel Gibson and folk were shooting a movie a few buildings over. Aside from the amazement of how the street was transformed into a movie set, I was amazed at the obvious line between fiction and reality. Me walking out of the office [...]

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