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Operation Don’t B*tch Up: My Last Post on 3 Ways

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on March 16, 2011 - 29 Comments
Introspection & Mental

*Takes a sip of water and stands with legs trembling at the podium even though nobody can see it** Yeah… *cough* It’s crazy for me to think that I’ve been writing and/or blogging since May 2008. I remember when I started my first site, The Ramblings of an Articulate Black Guy. It was just me [...]

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No Questions Asked

Posted by Seattle Washington on March 15, 2011 - 14 Comments
Introspection & Mental

It’s funny. From the moment we started this blog questions were constantly asked to each other and ourselves. It ranged from “What will my pen name be?” to “Will they think I’ve gone too far with this one? to “Will I put my face out there?” to “How do we make this site even better?”  [...]

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My Bed Is Laughing At Me

Posted by Seattle Washington on February 1, 2011 - 14 Comments
Introspection & Mental

Since I’ve gotten to Chicago I’ve woken up at 2:30am on the dot every day. I think the pressure of this new move is slightly weighing on my brain. Today (when I wrote this post at least), Tues. Jan 11th, I decided to get up after a horrible nightmare that caused me to actually gasp [...]

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Forget Resolutions. Embrace Yourself.

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on January 5, 2011 - 24 Comments
Introspection & Mental

I was scanning through blogs last night and came across a post on Until I Get Married titled “Her Dream Man Is Standing Near Me, But I’m The One Talking.” The author, Jozen, wrote about a shy friend of his that he considers to be a great guy that often gets overlooked by women because [...]

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Why New Year’s Resolutions Suck

Posted by Miss Jenkins on December 20, 2010 - 17 Comments
Introspection & Mental, Uncategorized

As we all get geared to spend time with family (and money on them), many of us are also spending time thinking about the good, the bad, and the ugly of 2010 and hoping for a better and brighter 2011. This process is no different than any other year. Many of us gripe about what [...]

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Ghosts of Children Past

Posted by Seattle Washington on December 8, 2010 - 45 Comments
Introspection & Mental

I had a bit of an epiphany while I watched TV with my goddaughter the other day. I was looking at her as she sat on my lap, nuzzled into to my chest, intently watching some show and I realized – I really love this girl. Never before have I cared so much about another [...]

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Emotional Triggers

Posted by Miss Jenkins on November 17, 2010 - 32 Comments
Introspection & Mental

A few weeks ago I talked about the feelings I had as a result of not communicating with my father. After I let him know that it was unacceptable for him to call me only when he needed something, I was surprised at myself. Even as I sat waiting for him to pick up the phone, [...]

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There Are Other Paths To God

Posted by Seattle Washington on October 19, 2010 - 27 Comments
Introspection & Mental

*I couldn’t resist. I’m back, but only for today. We’re still looking for guest writers so if you would like to appear on Three Ways, please contact me, Seattle, via Twitter or reach out to any of the other Three Ways writers. Now, on with the show.* “Everything I dream, mutha fucka, I’m watching it [...]

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