Bittersweet
When we started this blog almost three years ago, I couldn’t imagine this day. I couldn’t imagine all the experiences I’ve had between then and now, the stories I’ve shared, and the responses I’ve gotten from our readers. I couldn’t imagine the transitions I would make as a woman, as a “writer”, as a student, [...]
What Is and Isn’t a Man?
For the last few weeks, I’ve been sitting on a topic that comes up daily in the real world and in online conversations. There’s been a lot of talk about wack men, good men, manly men, men who blow backs out, men that have been pussified, emasculated, denigrated, and whatever else you can probably imagine. [...]
These Women…Are Amazing. I Love My Life.
February has been a historical month for Kid Slim. This has nothing to do with Black history other than the fact that I am indeed Black myself. Well, I’m more like coffee with half & half, but that actually has nothing to do with the rest of this post so I’ma just go on ahead [...]
RCLS’s Day Off
7:35 AM – Wake up to the noise of the garbage truck making it rounds. Realize I forgot to put the trash out. Run outside like a madman with several bags of trash in my hand. Successfully get down the driveway in one piece, but proceed to fall up the steps twice because of the [...]
Say It With Ya Chest!
So, I’m back. Where did I go? None of your f*cking business. But if you must know, I spent most of my time off in an undisclosed location attempting to save my corner of the nation from the evil grasp of the right wing hypocrites that desperately seek to take “their” country back to Jim [...]
Seriously Though. Can We Talk About HIV/AIDS For A Minute?
“You can’t just throw it in there all willy nilly and not throw on a C.” The crowd laughed. It was at that moment that I knew the night would be a memorable one. The panel had begun and the questions were underway. As I mentioned on Monday, once I realized I was there to [...]
How Murphy’s Law and Anxiety Played with My Emotions
I woke up on Thursday feeling like I had a job interview. I’d been looking forward to the day for weeks. On that evening, I’d be participating in my first panel discussion. I hopped out of bed, made sure that my outfit for the night would be ready once I got out of work, then [...]
Why You Should Care What People Think of You
“Your reputation is the most important thing you have. You should care what people think.” I stopped scanning email on my blackberry and looked up as the words reverberated between my ears. The speaker at a social media seminar I attended had my complete attention. It wasn’t so much that he said something innovative and [...]

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