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Forgive and Forget?

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on August 11, 2010 - 32 Comments
Introspection & Mental, Oldie But Goodie, Uncategorized

The Americans have lots of sayings, one which goes something like “Patience is a virtue”.   Rumor has that there are other virtues out there that people should strive for that will make them…virtuous.  Among one of these virtuous qualities is forgiveness.  To forgive someone is viewed as one of the most selfless and self sacrificial [...]

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Things That Make You Look Insecure

Posted by Miss Jenkins on August 2, 2010 - 17 Comments
Oldie But Goodie

I’m not talking about the type of insecurity that is rooted in proof of prior dirt (e.g. He’s cheated before) or indications that he is currently getting cutty (pronounced buns) from elsewhere. I am referring to the type of insecurity that causes a woman to doubt how great she is, or call into question a [...]

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Can We Talk For A Minute?

Posted by Miss Jenkins on July 6, 2010 - 11 Comments
Oldie But Goodie

Apparently not.  Unless it’s on GChat. Remember the days when you had to have a phone conversation with someone to get to know him or her? Well those days seem dead and gone as text messages, email, gchat, AIM, Skype, FB, myspace, twitter, and all the other mediums of communication have managed to trump face-to-face [...]

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The Truth In Advertising, Pt. 2

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on June 30, 2010 - 71 Comments
Oldie But Goodie

With the exception of the Olson twins, Americans love to eat.  Even amongst the healthiest of us, I’m sure there’s one little guilty pleasure out there that you’d fight your mama over for the last piece/portion/serving.  Personally, I’ll eat just about anything.  Yes, that too.  But the older I get the harder I find it [...]

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That’s a Deal Breaker

Posted by Miss Jenkins on June 14, 2010 - 84 Comments
Oldie But Goodie

It has been a rough weekend.  As I post this, I still have a project to work on. Sigh. Anyway, enjoy this goodness. On Thursday, I was sitting on the train after working a 13 hour day.  Needless to say I was tired, but I still kept my eyes peeled and observed my surroundings.  As [...]

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Nah Girl, Its Not that Deep.

Posted by Miss Jenkins on June 15, 2009 - 29 Comments
Oldie But Goodie

**Ya girl had a really rough Sunday, to say the least.  Bear with me.  Do enjoy!** Pause. Women have been known to ruminate over the little things, often to our detriment. We read into the actions of men as though we trying to break down the intricacies of Shakespearian poetry. We want to know why he [...]

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9 Ways to Turn Her Off Like a Light

Posted by Miss Jenkins on April 30, 2009 - 64 Comments
Oldie But Goodie

**Well folks, finals time is here.  And no not the bum ass NBA Finals.  As you are reading this I am either trying to get some sleep before my exam, sweating through the exam, or trying to rest my brain because its over.  I’ve revamped an oldie, but goodie.  Do enjoy!!** There are plenty of things [...]

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Setting the Bar Low (Redux)

Posted by Seattle Washington on April 21, 2009 - 23 Comments
Oldie But Goodie

I was going to pass this off as a new post, but I can’t lie to you guys. ::Angel face:: This is actually a post from back when we first started the blog. It was always a favorite of mine, but it just didn’t get the attention it deserved. Kind of like a middle child. [...]

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