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Why I love Steak and BJ Day

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on March 9, 2011 - 62 Comments
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The gods of holidays and special occasions has given us such monumental fails as Groundhog Day, Columbus Day, and Festivus, but they definitely redeemed themselves and done mankind a service with this one.  For those of you not familiar, March 14th has been designated as Steak and BJ day, and has come to be known [...]

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I’m Single on Valentine’s Day

Posted by Miss Jenkins on February 14, 2011 - 25 Comments
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Note: The word is ValentiNe’s, not ValentiMe’s. I challenge you, on this day, to help those who misspell and mispronounce a word that is written so often. Thank you for your help. Oh and check out my formspring. For much of the latter part of last week, I debated about what I would post about [...]

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My Secret Social Identity

Posted by Seattle Washington on February 8, 2011 - 16 Comments
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Two and a half years ago I read a post on SingleBlackMale.org by SBM himself about his struggles with telling women about his blog. I’d link it, but I’m too lazy to search for the post and I don’t really want you going somewhere else when you’re reading my post. #NoShotsFellas Anyway, at the time [...]

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Relationship Experts: Hate The Player Or The Game?

Posted by Miss Jenkins on January 27, 2011 - 33 Comments
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I listen to the Steve Harvey Morning Show damn near everyday, and have done so for a while. The Strawberry Letter is one of my favorite segments of the show, and I get a little upset if I miss it. Between the foolish, sad, or close-to-home stories and Steve’s funny, ignorant, honest or off-base commentary, [...]

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Chivalry Makes Women Feel Good

Posted by Miss Jenkins on January 17, 2011 - 23 Comments
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After a few days of anticipating this night, I could hardly contain myself. I was finally dressed after changing my outfit 3.75 times. He told me he would be here at 8 o’clock. By 7:56, I could feel the butterflies tap dancing in my tummy. Paying attention to their flutter almost made me miss his [...]

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Why Love Is Not a First Sight Thing

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on January 14, 2011 - 27 Comments
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Baby, I knew when I laid my eyes upon you that sunny summer day at the bus stop that you were the one. It was a feeling I never felt before. When our eyes met, I sensed a level of attraction and chemistry that left me not only feeling weak, but also as if time [...]

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What Exactly Is Dating? Oh, It’s Ambiguous.

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on January 6, 2011 - 23 Comments
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“You can’t be in a relationship and still be dating,” one of my female friends shouted. “It can be used interchangeably,” I chimed in. “It depends on if it’s exclusive or not,” another friend yelled. I held my 4th glass of wine and listened. This conversation was a reminder of one I’d had previously. Listening [...]

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What Does It Mean To Be Single?

Posted by Miss Jenkins on January 3, 2011 - 26 Comments
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A few weeks ago, I read a post by Dr. J about women, learned dependence on men, and being single. Truth be told, I read a lot of stuff by him, but often walk away feeling some type of way—not necessarily good or bad.   I was moved in a few different directions by this [...]

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