Why I love Steak and BJ Day
The gods of holidays and special occasions has given us such monumental fails as Groundhog Day, Columbus Day, and Festivus, but they definitely redeemed themselves and done mankind a service with this one. For those of you not familiar, March 14th has been designated as Steak and BJ day, and has come to be known [...]
I’m Single on Valentine’s Day
Note: The word is ValentiNe’s, not ValentiMe’s. I challenge you, on this day, to help those who misspell and mispronounce a word that is written so often. Thank you for your help. Oh and check out my formspring. For much of the latter part of last week, I debated about what I would post about [...]
My Secret Social Identity
Two and a half years ago I read a post on SingleBlackMale.org by SBM himself about his struggles with telling women about his blog. I’d link it, but I’m too lazy to search for the post and I don’t really want you going somewhere else when you’re reading my post. #NoShotsFellas Anyway, at the time [...]
Relationship Experts: Hate The Player Or The Game?
I listen to the Steve Harvey Morning Show damn near everyday, and have done so for a while. The Strawberry Letter is one of my favorite segments of the show, and I get a little upset if I miss it. Between the foolish, sad, or close-to-home stories and Steve’s funny, ignorant, honest or off-base commentary, [...]
Chivalry Makes Women Feel Good
After a few days of anticipating this night, I could hardly contain myself. I was finally dressed after changing my outfit 3.75 times. He told me he would be here at 8 o’clock. By 7:56, I could feel the butterflies tap dancing in my tummy. Paying attention to their flutter almost made me miss his [...]
Why Love Is Not a First Sight Thing
Baby, I knew when I laid my eyes upon you that sunny summer day at the bus stop that you were the one. It was a feeling I never felt before. When our eyes met, I sensed a level of attraction and chemistry that left me not only feeling weak, but also as if time [...]
What Exactly Is Dating? Oh, It’s Ambiguous.
“You can’t be in a relationship and still be dating,” one of my female friends shouted. “It can be used interchangeably,” I chimed in. “It depends on if it’s exclusive or not,” another friend yelled. I held my 4th glass of wine and listened. This conversation was a reminder of one I’d had previously. Listening [...]
What Does It Mean To Be Single?
A few weeks ago, I read a post by Dr. J about women, learned dependence on men, and being single. Truth be told, I read a lot of stuff by him, but often walk away feeling some type of way—not necessarily good or bad. I was moved in a few different directions by this [...]

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