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5 Things That #DatingTaughtMe

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on December 16, 2010 - 80 Comments
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**Next Slim Jackson Ustream/live stream and chat is scheduled for 12/21 (Tuesday) at 9pm** The other night I was getting my dose of Twitternet and noticed that #collegetaughtme was the hot new trending topic. Everybody was following the hashtag with things they learned from college ranging from promissory notes to trains…and I don’t mean a [...]

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I’m A Picky Bastard

Posted by Seattle Washington on December 14, 2010 - 41 Comments
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Everyone has their own idiosyncrasies, turn-ons and turnoffs. Some just have more than others. I have noticed over time that the master of my pants, Lord Pumpington, can convert to Sir Cuddlesworth pretty quickly if I find something I don’t like. There are a few reasons for this — the thought of getting the shaved [...]

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Two Wrongs Don’t Make A Right

Posted by The Squad on December 6, 2010 - 16 Comments
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**Slim will be doing a Ustream this evening (Tuesday) at 9pm EST. Here’s the link to where it’ll be going down. Basement. Check me out live.** Miss Jenkins: For the last year and change, Black women have gotten a good amount of public attention. The media locked us in its sight, making the reasons we [...]

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“I’m Sorry”

Posted by Seattle Washington on November 23, 2010 - 35 Comments
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When I was on my not-so-brief hiatus, an ex called to apologize for all the bat-shi*t crazy less than logical stuff she did years ago. Normally I would say, “too little, too late” but while I was talking to her I started to feel a bit more at ease. The apology lifted a dark cloud [...]

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Your Questions Give Me Answers

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on November 18, 2010 - 44 Comments
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“So have you ever cheated?” “Huh?” “Have you ever cheated and/or been cheated on?” “What?” “What’s been the average length of your past relationships?” “Excuse me?” “What do you want right now?” “Oh, I’ma order the fried chicken and lobster mac-n- cheese.” “You know that’s not what I meant…” “Do you really wanna know the [...]

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One Man Wolf Pack

Posted by Seattle Washington on November 16, 2010 - 29 Comments
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Hey Ma. Hey my baby. It’s good to hear your voice. How’s everything going? Everything is cool out on these streets. Work’s going really well. I’m excited to fly out to LA to shoot this stuff already. I leave – That’s good. I’m happy to hear that baby. Hey, whatever happened with “my friend”? C’mon [...]

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How the Perfect Man Scared Me to Death

Posted by Miss Jenkins on October 11, 2010 - 24 Comments
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For the past few weeks I talked about 2 “hims” and the emotional journeys I’ve been through in the last few years. With both men, I struggled with balance between the pleasant and painful memories that replayed in my head as I tried to figure out where my feelings stood. As I try to move [...]

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What Tweeting for Love Taught Me About Myself

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on September 23, 2010 - 59 Comments
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Lunchtime on Wednesday turned into a learning experience for me. As I enjoyed my delightful low calorie and low fat cajun chicken pasta from Muscle Maker Grill, I participated in Modern Day Matchmaker Wednesday  on Twitter. For those of you who are wondering “What the hell is this guy talking about?” here’s a summary: Paul, [...]

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