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Forgive and Forget?

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on August 11, 2010 - 32 Comments
Introspection & Mental, Oldie But Goodie, Uncategorized

The Americans have lots of sayings, one which goes something like “Patience is a virtue”.   Rumor has that there are other virtues out there that people should strive for that will make them…virtuous.  Among one of these virtuous qualities is forgiveness.  To forgive someone is viewed as one of the most selfless and self sacrificial [...]

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What West Indians Don’t Get About “Yankees”

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on August 4, 2010 - 54 Comments
Cultural Issues, Uncategorized

As the sole spokesperson for all West Indians living in the United States, let me begin by saying that we really like you guys.  However, there are some fundamental differences that take more time to get used to than others.   Many of us have managed to adapt to the cultural differences, but there are [...]

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Why Did I Go to School?

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on July 14, 2010 - 32 Comments
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In the midst of World Cup fever, Blackberry poker addiction and mid week birthday celebration hangovers, I managed to get hooked taking those quiz websites by another co-worker.  She kept braggin’ about being able to name 155 countries in 15 minutes and as with most of people’s “accomplishments” in life, I was thoroughly unimpressed and [...]

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Why Black Mamba and Jigga won’t ever be The One

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on June 16, 2010 - 80 Comments
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On paper, these two gentlemen are ahead of their class in just about every category (and their interviews are hotter, so holla).  They’ve held us down several summers, showcasing their immense talents in various venues, and show no signs of slowing down anytime very soon.  For all their efforts, they’re still not as respected as [...]

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Don’t You Trust Me?

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on May 5, 2010 - 26 Comments
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***Here’s a throwback from my other gig.  Enjoy ‘n what not…*** One of the most annoying but necessary evils of sexual relations is wrapping it up.  I think a little piece of every man dies every time he cops a box of rubbers, especially if it’s a last minute purchase at a corner store or [...]

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I Quit!

Posted by Seattle Washington on May 4, 2010 - 35 Comments
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As you know the gig and I have had our ups and downs. You could probably also tell I’ve been an extremely disgruntled employee and against working for a big corporation. Well, after working this mysterious job for almost four years, I’m finally bouncing. ::Pops bottle, makes it rain, picks the money back up, saves [...]

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