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Letting Go Of A First Love

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on February 23, 2011 - 13 Comments
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When it comes to moving on in relationships, most people will tell you the quicker you can begin to move on is best.  I’ve probably given that advice to 90 percent of my friends when they’re having relationship issues.  But like most advice, sometimes it is hard to follow your own, and I find myself [...]

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The Sh*t Your Man Does When You’re Not Looking

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on February 16, 2011 - 11 Comments
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**Slim got into town early and somehow I got stuck driving him around to his scalp massage and pedicure appointments.  Lucky me.** Yesterday Seattle helped our female readers understand what men are thinking about when they’re staring off into space.  I’m going to give you an idea of some of things that happen when you’re [...]

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The Church Hymn of a West Indian Mother

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on February 2, 2011 - 59 Comments
Cultural Issues, Uncategorized

When I was growing up, I wasn’t allowed to ride my bike all around the neighborhood like the other kids.  My mother had to be able to look out and see me while she was cooking or sewing or yapping on the phone, so I had to stay on the street in front of my [...]

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The Last Stand

Posted by Seattle Washington on January 4, 2011 - 18 Comments
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Back in 2008, Slim asked a younger, brasher and wifed up version of me to guest appear on his blog and this flew onto screen. The first post I ever wrote. Enjoy a throwback folks. For some of us it is fast approaching, for some of us it is here and for some of us [...]

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Why New Year’s Resolutions Suck

Posted by Miss Jenkins on December 20, 2010 - 17 Comments
Introspection & Mental, Uncategorized

As we all get geared to spend time with family (and money on them), many of us are also spending time thinking about the good, the bad, and the ugly of 2010 and hoping for a better and brighter 2011. This process is no different than any other year. Many of us gripe about what [...]

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Kanye Said Something Controversial?

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on October 27, 2010 - 21 Comments
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Kanye is one of the greatest artists of our generation, and he has no problem telling you about it, which is fine with me.  I have no problem with his recurring acts of irreverent indecency like drinking Henny out the bottle on the red carpet, telling the world George Bush hates black people or even [...]

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Forgive and Forget?

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on August 11, 2010 - 32 Comments
Introspection & Mental, Oldie But Goodie, Uncategorized

The Americans have lots of sayings, one which goes something like “Patience is a virtue”.   Rumor has that there are other virtues out there that people should strive for that will make them…virtuous.  Among one of these virtuous qualities is forgiveness.  To forgive someone is viewed as one of the most selfless and self sacrificial [...]

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What West Indians Don’t Get About “Yankees”

Posted by RightCoastLexSteele on August 4, 2010 - 54 Comments
Cultural Issues, Uncategorized

As the sole spokesperson for all West Indians living in the United States, let me begin by saying that we really like you guys.  However, there are some fundamental differences that take more time to get used to than others.   Many of us have managed to adapt to the cultural differences, but there are [...]

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