Predator or Prey?
SEATTLE: The traditional train of thought of men hitting women over the head with a club and dragging them back to the cave may be gone. The ratios have swapped as women’s standards have gotten higher. As the number of eligible bachelors dwindle and women get more comfortable in their lovely skin, they are the [...]
Gone to the Bahamas
Today starts the vacation that I’ve been mentioning here, on Facebook, and on Twitter. I’m taking to the skies at 8am and heading down to the Bahamas to get my relaxation on. I’ll be gone for a week. Some people have told me to leave the blog alone while on vacation, but that’d be like [...]
Making Friends
Nope. Not the all white cast tv show. Earlier this week I wrote a post for the Single Black Male website telling the story of an ambiguously gay encounter that I had with an African man. Actually, I wrote that post the same day that Sowhatiff posted here on the topic of Down Low Brothas. [...]
Relax This Weekend!
It’s Friday and it’s about to be a long weekend for most of us. And of course when we say long weekend, we mean that in a fun way. Some folks are headed to Miami for Memorial Day Weekend aka Florida Freaknik. I did that trip 2 years in a row and there are still [...]
Fam, You’re Not Fooling Me
SEATTLE: ::Rocking myself for comfort:: Yes, I was an unwilling witness to the constant troubles Slim has had with his HP computer these past few weeks. While the Bruce Banner like rage that swarmed over him when his computer quit on him like Stephon Marbury was quite the sight, what really had me ready to [...]
Stimulating Myself
Even though we’re in a recession, I still like to look at expensive things that I don’t really need. I was never really an aggressive window shopper until somewhere in the last 3 to 6 months. I’ve also started playin’ the lotto more frequently in hopes of finding the golden ticket in my chocolate bar [...]
Life of a Blogger
There’s a lot of time and energy that goes into this thing called blogging. To even be able to run a decent website, you gotta be passionate and diligent about it. If it isn’t a full-time job, it needs to be one of your favorite hobbies. I’ve been doing this for nearly 10 months now. [...]
Testing…1,2,3
I was perusing old posts and came across a self-proclaimed gem that I wrote a few months ago. Some of you may remember the post on women saying the opposite of what they really mean. I was reading through the comments and sipping on a potent alcoholic beverage that nearly ended up all over my [...]

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