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  1. I agree with all these. Men sometimes, ignore the sign and trust “the big butt and smile.”

    I haven’t ever show signs of crazy because my pride always got in the way. I live by “Never let him see you sweat or know how much you care.”

    My cousin is crazy. She has done just about everything on here. One of my ex best friends also showed signs of crazy by driving by a man’s house if he didn’t answer his phone. I mean, straight sitting outside, down the street, WAITING.

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    Sowhatiff Jenkins Reply:

    I’m glad you don’t take notes from those women. lol.

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    Nicki Sunshine Reply:

    LOL. Me too.

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  2. Smiley Face

    like Martin said…”Crazy…Deraaanngeedd”
    …first time y’all do the do and y’all have only know each other for 2 weeks and she’s all “baby i loooovveee you” dude…run!
    …she shows up at your place ready to cook you dinner b/c she wanted to do something special when a)you haven’t invited her over and b) you didn’t tell her where you lived..! don’t smile, do not pass go…dude run!
    …if you don’t know where she lives after 2 months of dating…yeah self explanatory..run!

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  3. Remi

    I agree with you Nicki. I’m much to prideful to embarrass myself like that. If I even notice that I call you more than you call me, I’m pretty much done. (I’m an Aries, I’m prideful and get bored quickly :) ). Not my style to go nuts, I have never been that angry at a man b/c men don’t matter that much anyway. When one is going, there is always another one coming. No need to go crazy over one fool and make yourself look just as dumb as he is.

    In addition to signs, I would also say to men don’t do things that would lead a crazy chick on. I think some men secretly like the attention from a crazy chick and do things to bring more of the crazy behavior on. I know one of my guy friends had a chick show up to his apartment unannounced (several times) when he wasn’t answering his phone and then another one “popped up” at the Starbucks he is always at and happened to “run into” him. She didn’t even try to front and buy something, she made it clear that she had been looking for him. He couldn’t understand why. I told him that he was part to blame. He never really broke it off with either of them, he just stopped answering and returning phone calls. Then when he finally spoke to them, he explained that he was just “busy.” If he had been honest, they seemed like pretty respectable and reasonable women outside of these situations, and probably would have fell back. He never took my advice, I think b/c he liked to have two women after him. Must have been a self-esteem thing.

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    Nicki Sunshine Reply:

    ” If I even notice that I call you more than you call me, I’m pretty much done”

    Me too. We’re not the same sign (Scorpio) but I have a lot of pride, in all situations.

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  4. Well, those are definitely cray cray signs. Especially the blow up the phone thing. that’s soooooo annoying. and the asking questions. its actually a pet peeve of mine, I hate somebody to ask me a bunch a questions in a row, like more than 3. LOL. I hate to feel like I’m being quizzed. Now I’m not a big “my pride won’t let me show it” type of girl. I believe in letting a guy know if I’m feeling him….but love? no we’d have to at least established an exclusive thing first. I guess its all in how you do it….you never want to come off extra thirsty.

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  5. I’m sorry. But I will be honest. If she is a virgin past the age of 20, something is wrong with her. She has intimacy problems or is too clingy. Too inexperienced in relationships. Or too religious.

    I’m not proud of this opinion, but I swear its true. Now there are some people but fall into ‘hey it just hasn’t happened yet’ but….. those girls tend to be creating situations so that it doesn’t happen.

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    Smiley Face Reply:

    CHeeKZ…you owe me a new chai tea..mine is all over my desk now! D@mn dude, lol!!

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    Miss Jenkins Reply:

    LOL. I too almost lost my tea.

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    CHeeKZ Money Reply:

    sorry Tea drinkers. Hope you got some herbal enjoyment down.

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    Reecie Reply:

    this is so funny (and true) because I have a friend that’s 29 and a virgin. and I do think she is very clingy. LOL

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    Single Black Male Reply:

    I actually gotta say this is some BS. I will admit … there is a very good chance they are super religious, but that wouldn’t make em crazy.

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    CHeeKZ Money Reply:

    You have to remember you are talking to an atheist. Overly religious means crazy to me.

    Its what I would call a temporary insanity. Its not like they are ruined for life, but until they get over their issues with touch or pen!s, they should be avoided.

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    Miss Jenkins Reply:

    “You have to remember you are talking to an atheist. Overly religious means crazy to me.”

    Smh, Cheekz. Smh.

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  6. “If she is a virgin past the age of 20, something is wrong with her.”

    As usual, Cheekz brings up good point. Fellas, are you tempted to run in the other direction if a girl past 20 or so tells you she is a virgin? Do you think that something is “wrong with her”, or is she a diamond in the rough?

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    Smiley Face Reply:

    Good question…is there a feeling of pressure to perform and get it right for a first timer? I mean what dude wants to be the one who ruined it all, lol, who wants that rep?

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    CHeeKZ Money Reply:

    Thanks for the shout out.
    V-cards are always difficult. In some aspect there is joy in being the first… in other aspects there is so much pressure. The normalcy that exist in our love lives now really lacks when you are dealing with a V-card.

    I’m not single. But the crew mostly is… you say V-card we are running for the hills (maybe if you giving up that whoppinton we might stay for a while).
    And the worst part is.. its bad beats. You can’t get your full stroke going, she is just lying there like a dead fish looking at you expecting you to create fireworks. THAN SHE CRIES! B!t^h, get your sobbing bloody behind off my satin pillows!

    I know MAD dudes that got tricked into taking a V-card. Girls just not telling dudes they were with Cherry. Its unfair, he would have never mad that investment in you if he knew that you were going to have that emotional connection. He just wanted to beat, not be Prince Charming.

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    Slim Jackson Reply:

    Ain’t nuthin wrong wit a chick havin the v-card after the age of 20, unless you’re really just lookin for jump off chicks. I support the card holders.lol.

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    Nicki Sunshine Reply:

    “You can’t get your full stroke going, she is just lying there like a dead fish looking at you expecting you to create fireworks. THAN SHE CRIES! B!t^h, get your sobbing bloody behind off my satin pillows!”

    DO NOT EVER WRITE ANY FOOLISHNESS LIKE THIS AGAIN.

    My face is bright red in here and I’m tearing up because I’m trying to hold in explosive laughter at my desk.

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    Triple Threat Reply:

    LMAO

    LITERALLY LAUGHING MY A$$ OFF AT WORK RIGHT NOW.

    The first time is never the best…

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    N.I.A. naturally.... Reply:

    wow Cheekz…really. smhlol. but question, do girls really cry the first time? i thought that only happened in movies….

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    Cheekie Reply:

    I’m late to the party because of The Man, but I gotta give ya an e-hug for your comment, Slim. So sweet.

    *side-eyes CheekZ*

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  7. Lol at “If she is a virgin past the age of 20, something is wrong with her.” That’s not always true. Some people just aren’t interested in sex at that point and are more concerned about getting a degree and a job. But I digress.

    Two of my friends have displayed the crazy chick mentality. They blow up a guy’s cell phone, drive by his house all unannounced, stalk him on Facebook and then wonder why he calls them crazy.

    I’m the funny, haha crazy friend, but they take the award for showing signs of being bonafide fatal attraction crazy chicks (minus killing the pet)

    Maybe they need a hobby. At the very least if you’re going to do all that at least get paid for it. I guess being a reporter helps me keep my inner crazy chick at bay. I already have to blow up phones, drive by houses and stalk Facebook profiles on a daily basis in my professional life. Who has time to do that in their personal life, much less care enough to even bother?

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  8. HALLELUJAH! I was really considering blogging on this myself but you did a great job, Tiff. These men need to stop being so reckless with the D and check for the signs!

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  9. Anna Nimous

    I agree with this post. Some of y’all men are too focused on a girl’s looks and some good gotdayum to notice that crazy chicks are…..well, crazy. I’ve heard it before from men – crazy girls got the best goodie. But then you have someone who is *literally* not emotionally stable knowing where you live. Dumb.

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  10. Dear Slim and Toni……..

    In a relationship setting or even a Friendly Cut buddy setting… Virgins are crazy. You might not see it, but its true. You might not be into sex or a relationship but that means you aren’t mentally fit for a relationship.

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    Miss Jenkins Reply:

    I think you should call some of your friends in for this debate…lol.

    But what makes them unfit for a relationship??

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    CHeeKZ Money Reply:

    Well in Toni’s case. If they are so focused on work or school that you can’t make time for ‘stress relief’ than you are only going to be a hassle on the other person.

    If you aint willing to give…what do you expect me to do?

    “But CHeeKZ, its only buns. blah blah blah”

    Its something and if a relationship STARTS with you already telling me no to an act that I feel is just me being myself, how are we going to work? Its not just buns, its who I am.

    I would invite them, but everyone is extra scary time when it comes to offending the ‘holy crowd’.

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  11. i agree w cheekz

    most virgins tend to think that they verginas are something extra special in and of itself. They feel that by giving you just the coot that that you are important to them

    Any of them past the age of 20 are probably the worst at feeling like they are man’s gift.

    Who wants to date someone THAT Not into sex..you gon be beating a whole helluva lot…

    Im just sayin..dude..if u not that into sex thats fine to be with a vcard carrier…but if you plan on wanting it all the time…a vcard carrier thats older than 20 will tend to use her vergina as a bargaining chip and some more…

    also I might add..dudes who prefer vcard carriers have issues with how good they are sexualy and/or insecurity issues. If you have a virgin, you know she can’t compare you to anyone else

    im just sayin…im w cheekz

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    Slim Jackson Reply:

    I happen to be one of those dudes that likes low numbers and have dated a v-card carrier. Call it insecurity, issues, whatever. I don’t think many men like to think of their chick gettin run thru by multiple dudes. I have an ego like the next man and like to think that what’s mine is mine.

    I respect a woman who isn’t liberal with her thang and just let’s a dude throw it in just because she itchin’ one night. I’m not knocking those who are sexually liberal, but insecurity shows itself in a variety of ways. Excessive D-taking can be one of em.

    May I add, if you’ve ever just been with someone because you hadn’t been with someone in a while and you wanted to feel valued that you’re also insecure. Trying to pass it off as “doing you” doesn’t excuse that. I’m just sayin.

    Still got blog love for you tho.

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    Berriblk Reply:

    I concur.

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    JG* Reply:

    Wait what? “What’s yours is yours?” Hunny boo. Pause. Stop. Womp.

    Just because she’s had sex with someone other than you does not equal being ran through.

    I understand your point. (You know that I do) I just feel like too often we talk in extremes. Either you’re a virgin or you’re a hoe. There is middle ground. I think it’s very important to have standards for sexuality. I would prefer a man who hasn’t F***** every girl in the world, and likewise I keep my mileage low. For my own safety and peace of mind.

    And it’s only “yours” during the pumps and bumps and throes of passion. Afterwards, all crazy words spoken during said moment are null and void. :)

    LOL

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    Slim Jackson Reply:

    I’m a man. I’m supposed to think that it’s mine. Just like she should think that my cocoa c*ck is hers. At least for the time I’m with her and 6 months previous (i’d like to think). I’m not saying that I club women over the head and then drag then home and make ‘em perform chores with only an apron on while barefoot in the kitchen fryin chicken. That, my friend, would be OD.

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    JG* Reply:

    Cocoa C*ock???? I’m Dead… just dead…..

    Thanks. :)

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    CHeeKZ Money Reply:

    But Slim… its just an illusion. There is no actual value in the pomps.

    I appreciate the fact that wifey aint a whore, but I don’t get TOO caught up in the whole vcard thing.
    I just want someone I can be proud of… not someone that has an emotional connection to me just b/c of I was the first in line.

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    Slim Jackson Reply:

    There is value in the poomps when it comes to wifing a chick up. I also want someone I can be proud of that doesn’t just love me cuz I unlocked her door first.

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    Berriblk Reply:

    Common misconception:

    Just because you were someones first doesn’t mean there will be some instant magical long term emotional connection.
    Psychology studies have found this to be indeed a falsity. Emotional connection is not magically created by sex for the first time….there had to have been something there prior.

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    CHeeKZ Money Reply:

    @Berri……. I KNOW THERE AINT NO CONNECTION. I just don’t think the girl realizes there is no connection and starts stalking!

    You know after you have nasty with someone and its kinda weird… they act like that ALL THE TIME.

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    JG* Reply:

    Agreeed. My first sucked so bad, that was his only shot.

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  12. Berriblk

    We are always telling ladies to have respect for themselves and know their worth, etc, but when someone decides to in their own way and as they see fit they are labeled “crazy” automatically.

    I agree, if you are looking for a quick lay then no a virgin is not for you, but don’t label them crazy because they would rather have something meaningful and willing to put in the work for it and would like to be with someone who feels the same.

    Seems to me those girls who didn’t tell your boys [cheekz] prior to was because they were afraid they would be automatically typecast as the crazy sprung religious zealot…perhaps they were just trying to get it over with by that time.

    “She has intimacy problems or is too clingy. Too inexperienced in relationships. Or too religious. ”

    I find these same issues with women who have been sexually active since puberty or even earlier…
    Sex is not a determining factor that you will have your shit together relationship wise; and if that were the case there would be no need for these blogs [no DrJ "Get Over It Series"].

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    CHeeKZ Money Reply:

    “perhaps they were just trying to get it over with by that time.”

    hmmm…… a little too accurate?

    they were still crazy, take my word for it.

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  13. im tellin u..women who withhold the coot for mad long are crazy too

    they dont have to be virgins..but stay away from them….they think thier coot is a rare commodity

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  14. oh..let me elaborate

    IMO..women who think their coot is a rare jewel yet to be found tend to be more possessive, more needy fanatic about finding that perfect love of their life

    if you dont plan on marrying her and letting her be the center of your attetion, then ROLL OUT

    If you are goin to b that dude that worship the ground she walks on and make her feel like the princess her tight coochie butt thinks she is then roll

    Oh..and once she lets you hit..trust and believe she thinks she owns you

    I done seen it time and time again with these type of women, blogged about it..

    seriously…cheekz is onto something

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    Single Black Male Reply:

    You ever think that there might just be some chics who are religious and actually think highly of their bodies?

    While most of us guys are understanding that most women done had a few “situations” and random acts of ish … why should we be faulted for wanting a girl with a temple instead of a turnstyle!

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  15. Berriblk

    “they dont have to be virgins..but stay away from them….they think thier coot is a rare commodity”

    I’m sorry am I missing something, why shouldn’t they?? I read your elaboration and your argument is still null and void.

    I would appreciate it if all women did feel vagina was a rare commodity, maybe we wouldn’t be having so many issues with the opposite sex.

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    Slim Jackson Reply:

    co-sign

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    CHeeKZ Money Reply:

    what the hell is wrong with you today Slim? When did you turn into a feminist? lol

    Fing Steve Harvey ass Ninja.

    Don’t bring that ‘women are a valued commodity’ attitude to the video shoot this weekend. Its suppose to be the recreation of Tip Drill.

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    Slim Jackson Reply:

    lol @ Tip Drill remake. I can’t really respond to this for obvious reasons. All I can really say is I love me some honest wholesome woman who shares similar thoughts and values.

    We’ve had this convo about chicks and their number Cheekz. 804.lol

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    Single Black Male Reply:

    man … I’m with Slim. Sure … if I’m looking for one night love I just want a bucket head with no gag reflex … but I’m a huge fan of chics with clean pasts and no desire to hide what they’ve done … because they know it hasn’t been bad.

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    Toni Reply:

    Let the church say Amen!

    Most people aren’t even that mature enough to handle sex below 20. My crazy friends were the ones who had sex while still in their teens.

    And last I checked virginity did not have an expiration date. Why would I want to give up something to any old person when I can’t get it back? It is rare because it’s mine. I’m not knocking anybody that’s not a virgin, but I just think it’s a little harsh to say those that still have a V-card at 20+ are crazy. Can I be wholesome and not crazy?

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  16. ACJ

    *Is offended by this crazy virgin discussion* :-/

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  17. Honestly

    I never want to be someones first, or be with a virgin. Thats one responsibility Im good on takin upon! (might be bad english, sorry)

    We all know how we felt our first time. At least we were able to work through our young hearts yearning to sort out the real from the fake. This gets harder #TWSS as the older you get. The propensity for insane actions is exponentially related to age * V-Card

    As for the rest of the post, AMEN AMEN I say to you Tiff! Wow… especially the feelings portion. You’re definitely on my screening list for future boos, hahaha.

    Dont sleep on Reecie either! I’ve heard a few “That bitch crazy” speeches from my music twin, lol!

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    Berriblk Reply:

    No, you can expect more realistic ideals from more older virgins.

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    CHeeKZ Money Reply:

    What is realistic about not giving up the buns?

    v-card chicks are constantly looking for a marriage or something more than what the guy wants. And b/c most men under 35 aint really looking for that, they end up forcing their values on us, without knowing that they do it.
    They are so stuck on their values they don’t appreciate our value as a Cocksman. They just call us shallow and expect us to grow up. But I thought sex was called doing the grown up?

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    Berriblk Reply:

    lol…??

    Ok, just steer clear from those silly valuing holding people. And I hope they do the same.

    =)

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    DukeTexGal Reply:

    okay cheekz, methinks someone might need some wholesome values, you seem just a tad bit jaded. Maybe a 20+ virgin, who is so because she respects herself, might rub off on you for the better…just sayin’…

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  18. people put too much emphasis on sex..I blame the catholic church

    LOL!!!

    and fyi…just cause someone hasn’t only had 2 sex partners doesn’t mean they are null and void of values

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  19. I think Big Brother is on to you ppl, I couldn’t get back on here til just now…

    How did this conversation go from crazy women to virgins?? I definitely don’t associate the 2. Some of the craziest chicks I know are straight up and down J.O.’s (not to be confused with my name). I mean, I guess if you take a woman’s virginity, she’s probably going to be a little more attached, but most likely, if she’s doing all the above things described by Ms. Jenkins, she’s probably just crazy… and mental instability can NOT be classified or characterized.

    My only comment is… I love when these crazy woman convos come up EVERY woman here is always like “Yeah, I’ve never done any of that ish, but I have a friend…….” Yeah, yeah we all have that friend who perpetually does all of the above… But LADIES, don’t even for one second act like you haven’t lost your mind even ONCE for ONE MINUTE over no negro… Cuz you done lied… Cuz I have all male friends, and all my male friends have had this happen to them at least 30 times, and if it happens to them 30 times, then just based on sheer statistics (and I’m a statistician), YOUR @$$ DID AT LEAST ONE OF THESE THINGS AT LEAST ONCE!!!!

    So stop frontin, crazies… Just because I lied once dont make me a liar. Or cuz I had sex once don’t make me a ho… Just cuz you pushed redial 7 or 30 times don’t make you crazy… just means you did something crazy once… Now if you find yourself doing more than one of these more than once, say, in a year…. I dunno…

    That’s all I’m gonna say. I live in a glass house…..

    =P

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    Miss Jenkins Reply:

    1. I blame Cheekz for the shift in topic. lol.

    2. ::applause:: great comment.

    3. You are right. 1 act doesn’t (or shouldn’t) result in a permanent label (depending on the act of course..See: Mrs. Bobbet). I can’t front though. I’ve called a man’s phone 5-6 times in a row. And thankfully, he was a manly man and gave me a firm talking to. Haven’t done it since.

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  20. Going along with some of the comments made, when did wanting to maintain one’s virginity become crazy? Let’s keep things in perspective people. We are talking about women who do crazy things. It can hardly be said that a virgin is crazy just because she’s a virgin, or that keeping your virginity is crazy. Maybe 1 woman’s reasons make her a little loco. But the generalization is a tad OD.

    I wanna hear more actual crazy broad stories!!

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  21. Wow @ virgins being crazy. Well, I must be Gnarls Barkley, then.

    I’m a virgine (word to Borat). It ain’t because of religion, it’s because of love. I’m waiting for love. That way, the mofo won’t be surprised if I become more attached to him. The sexy time itself won’t cause me to become attached, because I’ll already be attached if I’m love. I want my first time to be with someone I love and who loves me. Eff assumptions and generalizations about my choice and others who choose the same. Do you (which you probably are…literally when you’re sexually frustrated).

    Yeah, there are some crazy Tina Tightstuffs out there. But, there are equally crazy Loose Lolas. But please believe, having sex for the first time ain’t the only way to go crazy when it comes to sex in general. I’ve seen chicks who’ve BEEN have sex go crazy over a ninja after having sex with him. Sex, in general, can make folks go crazy.

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    Slim Jackson Reply:

    I’m a fan of your dedication to make it back to three ways no matter the hour. Word up.

    For whatever the reason, I understand the v-card thing even though I don’t have mine at all. I also agree that vitamin D regardless will make women go kookoo for cocoa c*ck and thus crazy. Just cuz a chick is a virgin don’t mean she gonna act OD clingy like the chick in wedding crashers.

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    CHeeKZ Money Reply:

    Look people.. we were talking about signs that a woman may be crazy. Not ways to diagnose crazy, big difference. Just b/c CHeeKIE is normal doesn’t mean most TightieDryies are.

    Its an extreme. If a chick is loose and wild and sucking off 5 Maliks at a time we are going to say she is pathetic and has daddy issues. And everyone agrees and smiles. Its an extreme.

    Being an old ass Virgin is an extreme too (in today’s society), just that Church has brainwashed us to thinking that it is a noble extreme.

    Sure not every virgin is crazy… but neither is every whore (some just are wired different, some just like it). But you would have felt comfortable labeling the hoes and that is unfair.

    “Do you (which you probably are…literally when you’re sexually frustrated). ”

    And you don’t?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Now THAT would be crazy.

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    Cheekie (The Man Made Me Fashionably Late) Reply:

    “And you don’t?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Now THAT would be crazy.”

    Boy, you should know better…I most definitely included myself in the general “you” when I said that. No need to commit me, please believe. lol

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