Stop Telling Me Why I’m Single!

*waves*  Hey boos!! It seems like everyone is weighing in on why Black women are single. I’m starting to think that we are becoming an endangered species of sorts: people need to figure out the causes of our singlehood and what, if anything, can be done to thwart the rates our marriage extinction. Between MSNBC, [...]

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Black Women Stay Hating

Last month, Slim touched on a topic that sorta struck a nerve with me: Black women hating on each other. It starts with the o_O (read: side-eye) you see your mother and grandmother use. When they aren’t looking, you try it too, at first with your siblings and cousins; then you try it at school. [...]

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Feeling the Pressure

Let me set the scene: You meet a man at some event or another, and yall hit it off.  He’s handsome, respectful, and can hold an engaging conversation. You exchange contact info. He is single, has a good career, no kids, and seems to be looking for something more than a cut buddy. **fast forward [...]

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