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I Thought A Good Man Was Hard to Find

Posted by Seattle Washington on November 7, 2008 - 11 Comments
Relationships

Blame it on my over stimulated mind, but I have to switch it up for a sec.  We’ll get back to Obamania though… Growing up as a kid in NY, the early afternoons of my summer vacation and “sick days” were consumed by the infamous Jerry Springer Show.  It exposed my already not so innocent [...]

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Sometimes We Just Gotta Slide Off

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on October 13, 2008 - 37 Comments
Relationships

**Calls enormous steroid abusing body guards, straps on bullet proof vest, steps into bullet proof bubble and surveys the surroundings . Okay, I think I’m safe** Why do men cheat? Yeah, I know. This is a dangerous topic. I’ve seen it covered on other blogs and it never seems to get old. At the request [...]

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So…What Are We?

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on September 17, 2008 - 23 Comments
Life, Relationships

By Slim Jackson “Umm, we need to talk.” I’d say most men hate hearing this. It’s the moment of truth comment when we been kickin it with a chick without discussing the status of our relationship. She’s had enough of the late night talks and lovin sessions with no clear relationship title in sight. A [...]

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8 Things That Make You Look Insecure

Posted by Miss Jenkins on September 2, 2008 - 15 Comments
Advice, Life

I’m not talking about the type of insecurity that is rooted in proof of prior dirt (e.g. He’s cheated before) or indications that he is currently getting cutty (pronounced buns) from elsewhere. I am referring to the type of insecurity that causes a woman to doubt how great she is, or calls into question a [...]

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8 Ways to Make a Guy Not Want to Sleep with You

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on August 17, 2008 - 18 Comments
Advice, Relationships

Guys put up with a lot of stuff just to get in the sack. The myth is that we’re dogs, we’ll deal with anything and sleep with everything at any moment. Wrong. Every man has his breaking point and here are eight reasons we’ve heard will instantly stop that jackhammer from going to work. Why [...]

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Stop Fighting Her For His Affection

Posted by Miss Jenkins on August 11, 2008 - 7 Comments
Drama, Relationships

After reading Slim’s post on the male-female friendship, and noticing the flurry of comments, I thought it only appropriate to add my thoughts to the mix. As a woman, I totally understand the trepidation most women feel when they learn about their main boo’s close female friend(s). Women, as passive aggressive creatures, are quite territorial, [...]

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How to Become a Man’s Best Female Friend

Posted by Slimuel L. Jackson on August 10, 2008 - 23 Comments
Relationships

By Slim Jackson Since we’re on a roll with blog entries, I figured I’d continue in style and attack a topic very close to the heart of many girls/women..the decent looking female that has a lot of guy friends. You know who I’m talkin about. Don’t kid yourself ladies! You know who she is, because [...]

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