Dating Down: More Than Just Ratios?
Last night as I was debating what to write about, a Nigerian friend (Yeah, I like to draw distinctions sometimes) sent me an interesting relationship article about attractive people dating not so attractive people and the reasons behind it. This particular piece (Pause) focused more so on hot women dating not so hot men. It [...]
So That’s What You Expect From Me?
(Shout out to Mr. Roarke for this one. He got the wheels churning. Time to get into it. Pause) Boo Piece: What you eatin’? That looks kinda weird. Leodus: Oh, it’s this energy bar. **Takes last bite** It’s actually really good. I eat one after I go to the gym sometimes. Helps me maintain my [...]
One of the Keys to Finding Love Is…
Yesterday a fellow writer and friend directed me to her blog to read a post (Yep. Click that. Worth the read.) she wrote on how she feels that fly Black women don’t have the luxury of making romantic mistakes. It’s not the first time that I’ve read a post or article about successful women being [...]
Hanging with Mr. or Ms. Cut Buddy
**The following takes place on a random cost-effective Friday night between a long-standing couple that’s sitting on the couch and eating turkey sandwiches.** Bertha: **Chewing on sandwich** Oh, I meant to tell you that one of my friends is in town. We’re going to go out tomorrow and grab some food and chill out for [...]
Modern Day Matchmaker: DC Show Recap
For those folks who are located in the DC area that didn’t make it to the Modern Day Matchmaker event, you missed out on a great time. The video for this week captures some of the highlights from a phenomenal show put on by Paul and his guests. This tour will continue across the United [...]
Modern Day Matchmaker: Do You Believe in Soul Mates?
**The Modern Day Matchmaker Tour starts in D.C. on March 27th. Click here for details and to find out when he’s coming to a city near you!** Paul and the fellas are back at it for the final part of the series on things single men think and talk about. In this segment, they’re discussing [...]
The Modern Day Matchmaker U.S. Tour!
The Modern Day Matchmaker, Paul Brunson, is taking the show on the road. As of now, he has put together an eight city tour that will consist of a panel of experts and popular bloggers as well as a night of fun events. For those of you that have seen any of his videos, this [...]
Modern Day Matchmaker: Things Men Look At First
Paul, the Modern Day Matchmaker, is back with part 2 of his interview with the fellas. In this edition, they discuss the things that men look at when they first see a woman. Grown man perspectives on grown man things. Enjoy!

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