Baby…You Suck.
There’s never an easy way to let someone down, which is why people classically tip toe around the truth to “let them down easy”. In the workplace, it’s never easy to criticize a co-worker/superior/employee, but in the interest of running a lucrative operation, you have to deliver the news. In between the sheets however, it’s [...]
Modern Day Matchmaker: What’s a Good Man or Woman?
Last week, Paul introduced us to some of his closest male friends. This week they are discussing what makes a good man or a good woman. If you’re looking for open and honest male opinion on the topic without all the foolishness we often find in the blog world, then this video is a must [...]
Modern Day Matchmaker Series: Stop Mean Muggin’!
The Modern Day Matchmaker, Paul Carrick Brunson, is back at it again. This week he talks about something that’s not just relegated to Black women, but to people in general. This is a very positive video with good points and comedic value as usual. And as you’ll notice, even when he tried to be positive [...]
Double Feature: Love is Not a First Sight Thing
Baby, I knew when I laid my eyes upon you that sunny summer day that you were the one. It was a feeling I never felt before. When our eyes met, I sensed a level of attraction and chemistry that left me not only feeling weak, but also as if time had froze so that [...]
Double Feature: Interview with Author of Bitch is the New Black (Pt. 2)
The Modern Day Matchmaker is back again for part 2 of his exclusive interview with Helena Andrews, author of Bitch is the New Black. In case you missed last week’s video or the segment on When to Invest in a Significant Other, click here. Otherwise, check out the video below and share your thoughts.
The Sh*t Your Man Does When You’re Not Lookin’
Yesterday Seattle helped our female readers understand what men are thinking about when they’re staring off into space. I’m going to give you an idea of some of things that happen when you’re not home/around or otherwise busy around the domicile. This applies to all types of relationships, whether you been married forever, dating for [...]
The Modern Day Matchmaker: Stop Shopping!
We mentioned in our first post back from the hiatus that we had some special things planned for the site. Well, today we wanted to introduce one of them. The video below is a genius segment done by the up and coming Modern Day Matchmaker, Paul Carrick Brunson. In this video he responds not only [...]
Get ‘Em, Don’t Keep ‘Em
Happy New Year to you! Before 2010 hit, I did my best to take the time to reflect on the present and more importantly where I wanted to be in the future. In the weeks I had off, I had plenty of time to think about my career, my writing, my goals and my relationships. [...]

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