The Reverse Double Standard
The Monday Early Edition. Let’s get the week started! We did a series a couple months back when we were getting our blog off the ground on the Double Standards between Men and Women. In retrospect, those posts expressed standards that left men pretty much unscathed. We talked about sex numbers, baby momma/poppa drama, etc. [...]
Looks Don’t Really Matter…
Looks aren’t everything. It’s what’s on the inside that counts. Yeah right. I figured I’d take it back to our relationship discussion roots. We talk a lot about relationship dynamics, pet peeves, unfair but accepted Double Standards, sexy time, and whatever else. But let’s talk about the beginning of the process. Let’s talk about the [...]
I Thought A Good Man Was Hard to Find
Blame it on my over stimulated mind, but I have to switch it up for a sec. We’ll get back to Obamania though… Growing up as a kid in NY, the early afternoons of my summer vacation and “sick days” were consumed by the infamous Jerry Springer Show. It exposed my already not so innocent [...]
Sometimes We Just Gotta Slide Off
**Calls enormous steroid abusing body guards, straps on bullet proof vest, steps into bullet proof bubble and surveys the surroundings . Okay, I think I’m safe** Why do men cheat? Yeah, I know. This is a dangerous topic. I’ve seen it covered on other blogs and it never seems to get old. At the request [...]
Size of the Boat, Motion in the Ocean, Or Neither?
By Sowhatiff Jenkins Don’t get all coy on me. I don’t know how conversations about sex goes down between dudes, if at all. Pause. But I can assure you that this question almost always comes up between women in one form or another. There is some almost automatic curiosity that surfaces when one finds out [...]
Maybe It’s Just Me, But I Need To Know
By Sowhatiff Jenkins Where the hell are the cool, good, sociable, (black) men? Contrary to popular belief, the independent women I spoke of in an earlier entry are probably not looking to get married tomorrow, so no worries; this isn’t the immediate thought behind the question. Like you, we are often just looking for some [...]
Maybe It’s Just Me, But I Need To Know
By Sowhatiff Jenkins Where the hell are the cool, good, sociable, (black) men? Contrary to popular belief, the independent women I spoke of in an earlier entry are probably not looking to get married tomorrow, so no worries; this isn’t the immediate thought behind the question. Like you, we are often just looking for some [...]
So…What Are We?
By Slim Jackson “Umm, we need to talk.” I’d say most men hate hearing this. It’s the moment of truth comment when we been kickin it with a chick without discussing the status of our relationship. She’s had enough of the late night talks and lovin sessions with no clear relationship title in sight. A [...]

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